you me and he
🎶 You, me...and he, what we gonna do, baby? 🎶 . I watched the now infamous Red Table Talk, and I had thoughts in no particular order. . Does August [...]
July 2020
August 2019
love letter to my sisters
I’m often told that I’m hard on people because of my tough love approach. Especially when regurgitating my unpopular opinions on the female/male dynamic. I openly admit, I may come [...]
August 2018
someone needs to read slim thug and I volunteer as tribute
In this week's Bitch, Please broadcast, washed-up rapper Slim Thug came for Ciara and her wedded bliss with Russell Wilson. Entirely fitting, of course, being that I came across this [...]
April 2017
america’s black kangs are upset with the most preeminent athlete of our time
Unless you've been scavenging the bottom of the garbage patch that is the Pacific Ocean, you know that Serena Williams recently announced that she's pregnant. By her F-I-A-N-C-E. Now a [...]
November 2016
broken as fvck: plastic wings and turning tables
By now, we've all had time to ingest, digest and regurgitate the season one finale of Issa Rae's pièce de résistance, Insecure. This episode, entitled Broken as F**k, like countless [...]
March 2016
it’s 2016 and men are still in opposition to women’s emancipation
Things I'm over: interlopers parading as upstanding, respectable men attempting to extol Ayesha Curry-influenced "virtue" in women that they themselves do not possess and are nowhere near rising up to [...]
November 2015
always a wifey, never a wife
I have relationship goals. What they don't include EVER is being someone's "wifey". I just cringed. Shit is bad. It’s the 21st century and women are still wearing this “title” [...]
i don’t want kids, but i do want you to stop asking me why i don’t have kids
Apparently, I’m a do nothin’ bitch because I’m pushing 35 and haven’t fulfilled my womanly obligation to have kids. That’s right, I have zero desire to populate the earth, and [...]
October 2015
hollywood divorce
I've been reading the craziest nonsense on the innanets pertaining to Halle Berry recently filing for divorce from her husband of two years, Olivier Martinez. The usual "she can't keep [...]
protect ya neck: a wu-tang style guide to dmv dating
Alas, the concept of dating in the DMV is brutally perplexing for innumerable women, and dare I say, hazardous to the self-esteem of many. Oh, that you were a fly [...]